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It has been two years now since my daughter has been allowed to see her sisters. The first year made sense as to why she didn’t see them because she wasn’t seeing her mother aka Satan. She has now been seeing her mom for a year and her mother is still not letting her seem them. Satan’s reasons for why she can’t see her sisters is because her husband aka Fuck Face is not allowing her to see his kids because he is scared she will bad mouth him in front of them. He will only allow her to see them if he is there to monitor the visit. The problem with this is my daughter doesn’t want to see him, because she is angry and terrified of him for the things he did to her while she was living with them.

When her mom decided to start coming around again Satan told her the reason she can’t see her sisters is because for the first few visits she really wanted to reconnect with her before her sisters were re-introduced into the scene. The visits would come the visits would go, after awhile my daughter started asking her mom when she could start seeing her sisters again. Satan’s response was she could only see her sisters if she agreed to see FF at the same time. When we first started hearing about this ultimatum we knew it would only be a matter of time before Brianna caved in and agreed to see him.

During their last visit her mom brought up a concert that they were all going to attend on her visitation day. She said that Fuck Face and her sisters would be there and asked Brianna if she wanted to go. When she came home that night she told us about the concert. She said she didn’t want to see FF, but wanted to go because there was no other way she would be allowed to see her sisters. When we went to court the judge was adamant that Brianna should be allowed to see her sisters right away, and that my daughter and her mother should go through therapy together before FF is even introduced back into the situation. Both her therapist and the judge agreed that because of everything that happened Brianna shouldn’t have to ever see FF if she didn’t want to. This is what pisses me off because Satan is forcing her to see him, and using her sisters as the bait to achieve this end.

Later in the week Satan sent an e-mail to us asking if she could keep Brianna later on her next visit to attend this concert, but failed to mention to us that FF would also be attending this concert. Ever since the last run in between my daughter and FF I have made it crystal clear to them that Brianna is not allowed around him. We are now in a pissing match over this topic. I told her mother that if FF wants to really make this work, then let her see her sisters with just her and her mom for a few visits then he can be added to the visits as long as it is in a public place. Satan’s point is that she can do whatever she wants whenever it is her visitation hours and I have no say in this. My stance on this is Brianna does not want to see him, but wants to see her sisters. She should be allowed to see her sisters first so she feels safe and secure before she is exposed to FF. I know she is going to feel very uncomfortable the first couple times she sees him, and I do not want these emotions to get in the way of the joy of finally being able to be reunited with her sisters. Brianna deserves to be herself, and if he is around looming like a prison guard she will feel very uncomfortable.

I don’t know what to do here. I don’t want to be the reason Brianna can’t see her sisters, but it is also my job to protect her. I know FF doesn’t want to see her; he has made it clear time and time again that he doesn’t like her, and she is excess weight keeping them from having a perfect family unit. Both Satan and FF were perfectly fine not ever seeing Brianna until they found out that with custody change they would have to pay child support. Ever since then they have been working hard at trying to make things go back the way they were. The sad part is they are holding her sisters as a bargaining chip to achieve this end. Brianna is only eleven years old and to be manipulated in such a way almost tops all the dirty shit that went on in the past.

I think one of two things is going to happen; first she will either hide the fact that FF will be with during her visitation hours, or Satan will now start to blame me for why Brianna can’t see her sisters. I think she will bring FF around without telling me, and I really cannot say anything about it. Brianna doesn’t want to see him she wants to see her sisters, but her mother has made it clear to her that she will only see them if she sees her husband. I think she has finally been worn down by her mother’s ultimatum.

After over 90 days the court order has arrived delivering the final verdict in the battle over good and evil. This is the culmination of a battle spanning 11 years. The order is as follows.

  • Physical Custody: I have been awarded sole physical custody of my daughter. (Victory)
  • Legal Custody: We will continue to share 50/50 legal. (Defeat)
  • Visitation: Satan will have visitation on the second and fourth Sunday of every month from 3-7pm. (Victory)
  • Holidays: I was awarded all holidays. (Victory)
  • Child Support: Satan is ordered to pay $327.00 a month. This order is back dated to January 1st 2010. This puts Satan $1,135.00 in rears or 3.5 months delinquent. (Victory)
  • Health Care: Satan is ordered to pay 42% of all unpaid and unreimbursed medical bills. (Defeat)

I knew I was going to be awarded sole physical, but I was disappointed over legal. In two years; Satan has attended zero softball games. In the same amount of time she has attended only 2 basketball games, missing all her playoff games including the championship game. She has not attended a single school function including conferences. She shows no interest in her daughter’s life. I figured with this and the fact we can not get along would cause the judge to award me full legal. I am still okay with the decision since her mother will not attend any of these things in the future.

We disagreed on visitation time. Satan wanted her from 4-8pm, but since she can never be on time to either pick or drop her off 8pm is way to late. During the school year my daughter needs to get her choirs done, and be ready for bed so she is well rested. When we were in court the judge asked Satan why she was unable to do 3-7pm “because she had other obligations.” I found it funny when the judge mentions this in the final document.

Holidays were a given since Satan requested holidays not to be sent with her, but with her grandmother. It is sad Satan does not want to spend holidays with her own daughter.

The child support was huge for me since the only reason her mother came back into her life was to try to avoid paying child support. In court she told the judge she felt she should not have to pay anything to support her daughter. Satan was willing to give up legal and physical custody as long as I didn’t ask her to pay child support. She requested she only pay $100.00 and I was asking she pay $300.

When I received the order I sent her a text just to make sure we were on the same page. The order stated to send child support payments to the court. There is no order currently opened for collections through the county. I informed her of this and explained she needs to send the check to me. Her response was of course rude as hell, saying she will send the money where the order states. I again tried to explain there was no order open, so it was pointless. She continued to be difficult, so I asked her if she would rather have the county collect, or would she see reason. She threw it in my face with more rudeness and disrespect.

My wife pointed out the next day, the order was back dated to January 1st 2010. I sent a text to both Satan and her husband Fuck Face. I explained in there, it was a great decision to choose the courts to collect. I then went into how much they were in rears, and the collection repercussions of going through the courts. In the state of Minnesota the repercussions of non-payment goes anywhere from severe delinquency status on credit report all the way to criminal nonpayment. I ended the text pointing out currently they fall under five of the categories.

I immediately received a text from Fuck Face saying they now had no problem sending me the money, and how important it was we worked together. I have been trying to communicate with these two douches over the last two years and I am either ignored or given some dank attitude. I just responded with I will see it when I believe it.

I need to see if with sole physical custody if I can keep my daughter away from Fuck Face. My daughter made me promise her she would never have to see him again. Satan is using my daughters sisters as a tool to force her into seeing Fuck Face, and my daughter is all torn up about it. It has been 1 year and 4 months since she has seen her sisters.

I am sure this will not be the last drama to come from this ongoing battle. I do know one thing I no longer have to fear Satan will use my daughter against me. She no longer has that power over my daughter or myself. It is a great feeling for both of us.

I feel compelled to do a quick Satan update, because I am just steaming over her manipulation and terror. This Sunday was her visitation with my daughter, (in case you are new, she sees her two Sunday’s a month for four hours.) Satan texted me last week, and asked if she could keep her until 8:45pm last night. I figured I would use this time to ask her some questions, which she had been ignoring me on.

I texted her awhile back because she is not paying her part of the therapy bill. I can no longer send my daughter to therapy, because Satan’s half of the bill is getting larger, and if she chooses not to pay then the therapist will start collection proceeding on me. I also asked her if she was going to let her see her sisters soon. It has been 1 year and 3 months since she had last seen them.

I waited and waited with no response. I texted her again and asked her if she was going to ignore me yet again. She texted me back saying her daughter threw up in the car, and she could not respond. She said is that okay with me, clearly being sarcastic. I texted her back, and said that is fine, but if you have time to text me a rude response then you can text me the answers to my question.

About an hour later she texted me and said when and if she pays the therapist is none of my business, and neither is when she allows my daughter to see her sisters. At this point I am fuming with hate and anger. I respond and say it is my business whether or not she pays the therapist, and it is my business when she lets her see her sisters because I am her caretaker and it affects her negatively. Her response was what her and fuck face do with their daughters is none of my business. I did not respond, I did not give her an answer on whether she could keep her until 8:45.

The hate in me wanted to tell her that the court order states she can only have her until 8pm and that is what I am going to enforce. I did not do this because the person I would be hurting most would be my daughter. I figured even if I said she could not keep her she would anyway. Sunday was a school night, and I was not happy about it since my daughter would be rushed to get her nighttime duties done and would be tired for the next day.

Well 8:45 came and went, and they were not here. My daughter called my wife and told her they were lost and would be late; she sounded upset. She got home around 9:40 and immediately asked if she was going to see her therapist on Tuesday. We had to inform her that she can not see her therapist, due to finances. She said she was upset and wanted to talk to someone. She feels most comfortable talking to my wife since she has been more of a mother to her than her real mom.

She stated that she did not like how her mom always ends their visits with something sad. She said that Satan asked her if she felt comfortable with Fuck Face and her sisters being there next mothers day. Satan immediately said, nevermind you are not ready. This upset my daughter because she does not want to see Tim, and she is afraid to say anything negative towards her mom. She fears if she says anything bad then her mom will stop seeing her again.

The fucked up thing is Satan will not allow my daughter to see her sisters unless Fuck Face is with. She is using her sisters as a bargaining chip. The only way she can see them, is if she sees him. My daughter is petrified of this man and wants nothing to do with him, but so desperately wants to see her sisters. I know eventually she will crack and agree to this, or Satan will just show up on her visitation time with Fuck Face. I do know one thing, I will deny any visitation involving her step-dad.

I just hate how much pain this woman is causing my daughter. The sickest thing is she is her mother, and she knows what she is doing is causing her immense pain. I can not imagine trying to do one of my children like that. Things were so much better when this douche was not around. My daughter was finally becoming strong and happy. Ever since Satan showed up in January and wanted to see her again, my daughter has gone downhill.

The only reason her mom is in her life is because I took her to court to get full custody and child support. Once they saw I was seeking child support they suddenly wanted to see her again. I know the only reason Fuck Face wants to see her is so he can intimidate her to start spending every other weekend at their house so they can decrease child support. This shit disgusts me to no end. I want so badly to just sit my daughter down and show her all the texts I have saved. I want to try to show her that her mom does not care about her; she only cares about not paying child support. This poor little girl tries so hard to get her mom to truly love and care about her. The saddest part is she will never get that.

I am still waiting for the court’s decision on this matter. When we went to court the judge was clearly pissed at her mothers behavior, and called her out. The whole thing seemed so cut and dry. I figured a decision would come very quickly. We went to court on March 3rd and still nothing. My fear is by the time the judge revisits the paperwork, the actual court hearing will be a distant memory. He has 90 days to make his decision, so I think that means we should have a decision in no more than three weeks.

Yesterday the epic battle took place on neutral ground between the evil whore beast Satan. I was a nervous wreck prior to our stand-off. I had my wife, and my aunt in-laws Karen, and Gail for support. We were wondering who would show up with Satan for support; would it be her mother, or her husband fuck face? I thought it would be her mother, she used to be an allies until she started seeing Satan. It took all of one conversation to draw her to the dark side. I thought it would be fuck face, but my wife said “there is no way he will show his face, after all the accusations.” Satan’s allies was none other than the fuck face, the dirty little bastard showed his face.

I had an 18 minute speech prepared aimed at sending the demon back to the pits of hell. I was discouraged to find out, I would not have an option to read it. The referee started off the hearing by asking us why we were there, where we agreed, and where we disagreed. This threw me off, so I missed some key points on where we disagreed. This area was how Satan set up visitation during holidays. Satan requested our daughter spend Christmas eve, and every other Easter with her grandma. My response was if Satan herself did not want to spend holidays with her daughter, then she can not request I allow her to spend them with her grandma. I have always allowed my daughter to see her extended family, so it is not really an issue. I just thought it was stupid she requested such things. I also forgot that we disagreed on monitoring phone calls, which due to her serpent tongue this is desperately needed.

I gave my speech for why I felt I deserved full legal custody, and the beast gave hers. I am unsure which way he will rule in this area. He asked if he did not award full legal custody would it not be in the best interest of the minor child. Satan said it would be in the best interest of minor child, and stated, although we have had our up’s and down’s we have always managed to work things out. I disagreed; I pointed out to the referee how many times we have had to go to court, this should show we can not get along. I also pointed out that we do not like each other and communicating is extremely difficult. I feel there is some hope this will be awarded to me.

On the issue of child support the referee asked Satan directly “do you feel you should not have to pay child support?” Satan responded with “yes…I mean no…well not very much.” I could tell from reading the referee’s non verbal he thought the answer was stupid. He did state she will not have much of a choice in this manner. I asked the referee to base child support off of Satan’s potential income, before she decided she no longer wanted to work, she was making over $20.00 an hour roofing. Satan responded with “roofing is too dangerous; so I don’t want to do that anymore.” The referee asked her how much he should use for an hourly wage, she stated $12.00 an hour. She stated she has no degree, and no speakable skills and that finding a job would be nearly impossible. The referee asked her how much fuck face made. She responded with “I Don’t know.” He looked at her and said “you don’t know?” She skated around the question, and eventually said he works on commission so she isn’t really sure. I finally said “I am sure Satan does not want to pay child support, just like any parent wishes they did not have to pay child support on a child they see four days a year, but it is ridiculous she thinks she does not have to support her daughter.”

I could tell the referee thought she was a compleat douche. If you remember from a prior post, I stated; Satan was requiring me to carry insurance on the minor child, she felt it was not safe for her to not have traditional insurance. This was after she read we could not afford insurance. I pointed out to the referee; it would cost me 54% of my paychecks to insure her on my insurance. He looks at Satan and asks “are you willing to pay half of the medical insurance?” She snickers and says well yea as long as I don’t have to pay child support.

The referee was spending more time asking Satan questions than he was myself. After the hearing Gail told me that was a good sign, she could tell he was seeing right through her bullshit. He was not very nice to her, and told her that she clearly chose her husband over her daughter. There was much more minor insanity, which was said. She told the courts the reason she stopped seeing her daughter in March of 09 was due to me and my accusations of abuse. The referee asked her “well who told Mr. Lundmark about the allegations?” She responded with our daughter.

When it was over she stated her heart hurt over everything that has happened, and she really wants to fix her relationship with her daughter. The referee looked at her and said “how are you going to do that only seeing her 96 hours a year?” He requested she go to reconciliation therapy with her daughter, he made sure to point out she would be paying for that. There really was more said, but this is getting really long. I will not know the referees decision for another 4-6 weeks, waiting for it will be stressful.

I text Satan later that day, and told her if the referee ruled I had to carry our daughter on my insurance, and she agreed to pay half, she would owe me $625.00 a month. Stupid cootch tried to cause me financial stress, and only ended up screwing herself.

The court date is set for March 3rd, I filed the paperwork in Janurary. I am requesting full legal and physical custody, along with child support. The demon see’s her daughter two times a month for a total of 96 hours in a year. In an e-mail she agreed to give me full legal and physical custody as long as I don’t pursue child support. I did not agree; I feel she should help support her daughter. If you would like additional information; feel free to read past posts.

 I filed the court papers months ago, and I had her served by mail, since this time I have been waiting to hear her response. This is causing my anxiety to kick into hyperdrive, and is gravely affecting my life. The court papers say; if she is disputing anything, and is serving by mail it had to be post marked by the 18th of February. She lives close by, so I should have recieved the papers. If she intends to have someone serve me, it has to be 5 days before the court date.

I could no longer handle the stress, so I called family courts, I asked if the demon had filed a response. The court person, said she filed a response on the 16th of February. I stated I had not recieved yet, and it is the 23rd. I asked her if she signed an avidavid stating if she had mailed, or was I going to be served. She stated to me, that she had not filed the avidavid, which states she is mailing or serving. I had some questions stating the judge should not accept, since she violated the court rules on when she should send it. I was transfered to one of the judges assistants.

I spoke withe the judges assistant, she would not assist me in much. The feeling I got from her was not a good one. She advised me to talk to the legal support team to talk about my options. The assistant informed me; the evil one was disputing, but would not say what. I asked her about filing deadlines, she informed me I may not see the paperwork until the actual court date, she did tell me the judge would give me time to review, or reschedule the court date. I need to see those papers so I can mount my defense. I am not okay with rescheduling, this whole situation has not been good for my mental health.

I called the self help legal team, but the wait time for a call backl is 3-4 business days. I have delt with the self help desk before, and they do not assist much over the phone. They advise you to come in, which is not an option. My daughter has school patrol all week, and her grandma picks her up from school. I have a feeling she will be the one to serve me on Friday. This will put the nail in the coffen for our relationship. There was a time when she was not allowed to speak to Satan, and she was very friendly; she praised us many times, stating my daughter was better off not seeing her mom, and that we were great parents. Since her reunion with the demon, she has not said a word to us.

Here is my biggest problem, because I did not agree with the beast on child support she is on a rampage for revenge. She does not give a shit what is in her daughters best interest. She is spiteful, through our whole relationship she has used our daughter to try and hurt me. I fear that she will request 50% physical custody so she does not have to pay child support, or request that she live with her full time. I made a promise to my daughter that I would never allow her to see fuck face, and that I will protect her from him.

I hope the judge can see, she is only doing this because she does not want to pay child support. Since March 2009, she has only seen her four times, for a total of 12 hours. She was invited to go to parents day, and watch our daughter perform in a concert. She never came, times between their visits she does not attempt to contact her. This evil manipulating douche bag, does not care what is in her daughters best interest, she only cares about revenge.

Every month I need to text Satan, and ask her if she has mailed the $100.00 support check for the month. The check is either mailed that day, or the day after. I sent such a text yesterday. Her response was as follows “you don’t have insurance; right? What is the check for then?” I was shocked by this response and I was unsure how to respond to this. I texted her and said that it was for the support of your daughter, just like a deadbeat dad is ordered to pay. I went on to say that I can just file for collections from the county, and how I would be happy to report to the judge that she is refusing to pay the ordered support. Before I continue, I should explain a few things. (Please see previous Satan posts for more info)

My daughter came to stay with us in the first week, of June 2008. I stated to Satan; we would be changing this legally. She had two stipulations; the first was she will NOT pay any child support, and the second was physical/legal custody would not be changed; it would need to state just a change in visitation. I requested she contribute $100.00 towards medical. At the time of the current order we had her insured. We stopped carrying insurance, because we could no longer afford it. It would cost us $10,000.00 before the insurance would cover anything. This option does not make financial sense, so we cut insurance and set up an HSA (Health Savings Account) which we contribute to every month. Okay back to our text conversation yesterday.

Satan responded like the evil hoe bag she is; on top of that she had the gull to start her text off with Lol followed by an exclamation point. The following wickedness spewed from her ludicrous mind. “Lol! You sure love to get nasty, you’re so predictable. The $100.00 was half the insurance that you dropped. If you think that you having a judge order me to pay child support bothers me; it doesn’t. I’m not giving you money for insurance you don’t carry. The judge will help us figure it out.”

I responded by pointing out she is responsible for supporting her child, and we may not be carrying traditional insurance but we put money away every paycheck. I also stated we carry full dental on her, and that it states she needs to pay $100.00 in support, the order does not specify medical insurance. Finally I pointed out she is responsible for 50% of unreimbursed and uninsured medical bills. I have taken care of these medical bills; I have never had a doctor’s office bill her for her portion. I let her know; I would be changing this. Satan had no response to this text, and I am certain she will not be sending a check this month.

I am convinced one of two things is going on; either she has an attorney or she is in fact that brainless. She has yet to send a response to the court papers I sent her; since our court date is scheduled for March 3rd she is running out of time. I know she will argue in court, since I am not carrying traditional insurance, then she should not have to pay the court ordered support. I have a hard time believing the judge would be okay with her refusal to pay. First and foremost she is court ordered to pay, and like I stated above the order does not specify health insurance. Secondly; since June 1st 2008 Satan has done absolutely nothing to help support her daughter beyond the $100.00 a month check. Thirdly; we spend $250.00 a month to keep our daughter in therapy, and the only reason she has to go to therapy is because of the damage Satan and her husband have caused.

My reasons for thinking she has an attorney is for the exact reasons I stated above, an attorney may wait to the last minute to file a response so we have less time to prepare. An attorney may have looked at the current order and told her she no longer had to pay. Satan has made comments during one of our many arguments that she has spoken to an attorney. I can understand an attorney’s tactic to wait till the last minute to file the paperwork, but I am having trouble with an attorney advising their client to go against a court paper. I also have a hard time believing an attorney would even agree to take the case considering the amount of documentation we have, they would know Satan doesn’t have a leg to stand on… then again I may be giving attorneys too much credit. I am sure they would talk her up just to collect a payday.

I do not mean Satan in the literal sense. Satan refers to the most evil diabolical human on this planet; my daughters mother.

I received a call from my daughters’ therapist yesterday, she told me Satan had called her and requested a release of information. The therapist wanted to get confirmation that she had 50% legal custody over our daughter. I informed her that she did for the time being.

I served Satan, the court papers for our March 3rd battle. I am seeking physical and legal custody, and requesting she pay child support. I know she went on a temper-tantrum about some of the affidavits we collected. One of those affidavits was from her therapist, stating our daughter should not be allowed around her husband aka Fuck Face; it also stated her mother needed to come up with a consistent schedule, and allow her to see her sisters.

I am unsure what she is up to, but it worries me. We have a rock solid case, but Satan is as devious as she is evil. She sent me an e-mail saying she will see Brianna the second and fourth Sunday, of the month for four hours, further more she is still not allowed to see her sisters. She also stated she would give me physical and legal custody as long as she does not have to pay child support. Finally she said that we both need to be flexible on the Sundays if something were to ever come up.

I agreed with everything in her proposal, except child support. This demon see’s her daughter 96 hours a year, which totals a whopping 4 days and expects to not help raise her financially! Satan chooses to not work; hence feels she is not obligated to pay child support. This is simply unacceptable. If the roles were reversed and a man walked into court trying to say he shouldn’t pay child support, because he doesn’t want to work, the courts would crucify his ass, especially if he has done the things to his child this beast has. I stated it in an earlier article, my fear is the judge will just be pro woman, not looking at the facts, and what’s worse sympathize with her.

Satan’s visit with our daughter was scheduled for this Sunday. She was invited to a sleepover birthday party from Sunday to Monday. She wanted to go to the sleepover, and change the weekend she saw her mother. I relayed this to Satan, and she stated she is unwilling to switch weekends, she said she was looking forward to seeing her again, and it was up to our daughter what she wanted to do. If she was going to choose a birthday party over her, then she didn’t want to see her. Needless to say my daughter was devastated her mom would not be flexible. Again for the five hundredth time, we need to comfort a little ten-year old girl. We needed to somehow try to explain her moms actions.

She stated in her proposal she wanted flexibility. How can she say that she is looking forward to seeing her again, but won’t change her weekend? This makes no sense; I am hoping the judge will see through all of this. I just want to do a quick recap, I am sorry if some of this is repetitive.

From March 9th 2009 to January 8th 2010, Satan has seen her daughter twice, for a total of four hours. She sent her a letter in October 2009 saying she was no longer going to call or see her. In November I wanted to make this legal. I received a text back saying she did not want to make it legal, and she now wants to see her. Since end of August 2009, she has talked to her on the phone two times. I had told Satan she could talk to her, but must be through my phone with me listening This is due to the sick shit she would tell her, since I told her this in August, she has never requested to speak to her daughter. It has been 10 months since Brianna has seen her sisters.

I am so eager to see what her evil plan will be. I am assuming I will receive her court rebuttal sometime in early February. I truly am sick with disgust and anxiety over what she is going to say. Since I would not agree to stop the pursuit of collecting child support, this evil, manipulative, vengeful demon bitch will go for my jugular. Whatever her diabolical intentions are, I can say with certainty she will not have our daughters best interest in mind.

At 4:00pm today Satan came and picked up my daughter. This is the first time that Brianna has seen her in six months. She was so nervous, and made every effort to make sure that everything she was wearing was something that came from her mom (Satan). I am so worried about what is going to happen. I think it is sad that my daughter tries so hard to impress this evil spawn with wearing the cheap jewelry that she never wears just to make this douche happy.

The last time that Brianna spent a weekend at Satan’s house was March 6 2009. Since this time Satan has seen her two times for a total of four hours. That means that their visit today will equal as much time they have seen each other in 10 months! Words cannot even describe how evil this woman is, anyone who can just totally fuck up their kid as bad as she did is completely unacceptable in my eyes.

Satan should receive the court papers either tomorrow or Tuesday. I can’t wait to see what her reply is, I am sure it will be filled with lies and utter goofiness. I cannot wait for March 3rd the final battle between good and evil will take place. I will keep everyone updated on this tragic situation.

Tomorrow is the day, I am finally able to go down to good ole Hennepin County and file the Custody and Child Support papers against my daughters’ mother. This has been months in the making, and I am relieved that the wheels will finally be set in motion and justice be served. I am aware that this is far from open and shut; I have to accept the facts, I am entering a world that still largely rules in the favor of the mother, even though in this situation she is clearly wrong. Let me give you a quick backdrop on this doozy of a story. To hide the names of the guilty I shall only refer to my daughters’ mother as Satan.

Satan and I hooked up, and as luck would have it she got pregnant. Against my better judgment I proposed to her out of mix of responsibility and pure stupidity. After spending many nights with Satan I realize that this woman is the dumbest person in the entire world, and having conversations with her is like talking to a rock… I take that back a rock is better because a rock does not come back with stupid ass opinions on things. Realizing that I am about to marry an uneducated hillbilly douche bag I quickly exited the relationship. If you do not believe me on the level of idiocy that this woman holds let me give you a brief example. I moved out barely talked to her and moved in with some friends two of which were females. Even after these three obvious hints she still thought we were together.

After Satan saw the light she did what Satan does and tries to hurt me, and what is her weapon? She decides to use our daughter to get back at me ala not letting me see her, so I take her to court and I am awarded 50/50 legal and physical custody. Through the following years there were times we got along, and times where we loathed each other. Through all this we seemed to work things out until she met her future husband who moving forward will be referred to as fuck face.

Satan marries fuck face, and they begin to build their life together. This sounds nice except fuck face cannot accept my daughter into the family they were trying to build. My daughter would come to my house on visits and tell of horrendous stories of being mistreated. This continues to go on until my daughter starts speaking her mind, and one summer I am told by Satan that they would like to have her live with me and my wife. They said that they will see her every other weekend. This turned into the first and the third weekend which turned into whenever Satan could see her, which turned into a letter from Satan saying that she no longer wants to see her. There are many stories that go behind this, but I just realized that I am not writing a novel here.

This letter came the first or second week of October; the last time that she spent a weekend at her moms was the first weekend of March 2009. From March to October Satan has seen her two times for a total of four hours, and had denied her the right to see her sisters. The letter clearly said that she was no longer going to call or see her; I figured we should make this legal. I send Satan a text asking if she would sign off on giving me full custody. She sent me a text saying that she was not going to do that, and in fact she wanted to see her. I even received a text from fuck face wanting to talk to my daughter, when I relayed the message to her there was an intense fear in her eye, and she told me that if I say no he will come and get me. I held her in my arms while she begged me to promise her that I would never let him get to her. I relayed the message to fuck face that as long as I have a breath he will never see her.

I managed to talk to Satan and long story short is she will agree to give me full legal and physical custody as long as she did not have to pay child support. I declined such an offer because she should help support her. This disagreement is why we are going to court. Satan told me that she wants to see her on the second and fourth Sunday of every month from 4-8. Her sisters will not be allowed on these visits.

The entire story is sick and twisted and frankly pisses me off; the things that have been done or said to my daughter in my eyes are unforgivable. A parent should not treat their child in such a manner. Tomorrow is the beginning of the final confrontation. Will justice prevail, or will I get shit on? All the facts are there, letters from her family members, letters from her therapist, letters from school, and most importantly letters from Satan. You would think that this is an open and shut case; unfortunately we are dealing with a broken justice system, in which anything is possible except real justice.